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Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Xx Diablo xX - 08-19-2006
My girlfriend and i have been going out for 5 years, and in five years shes done some shit that got me mad, but i got over it. But this time idk what to do... Around 3 weeks ago, we were having a hard time, but nothing big. She has her group of buds, i have mine. And for that whole week she only saw them. I though i would give her some time to cool off. A few pics pop up on one of her friends my space after that week with him with his arms around her and shit, (by the way this kid told everyone he likes her, but i trusted her not to do anything, or let anything happen)http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=23867037&imageID=1024936598&MyToken=f691e312-85db-4e7b-97cf-66dfc21b5978 That is one pic.
So i just tell her to not let it happen again, and to let me talk to the kid myself. So 3 weeks pass until yesterday when i was over her house and was looking through her digital camera, she takes it away really fast and says don't look through my shit, so i got thinking,(ever since that one week she saw them, i have had a bad feeling..) i asked her if she did anything she didn't tell me about,(i just had one of those feelings that you know something happened) i must of asked her 1000 times before i just stormed out of the house. She catches up and says that we should take a walk. So i know that something went on.. On that walk she let me see the pics... There was at least 20 pics of her and Dan, (the kid in the pic) ****ing kissing!!!!!
I swear i almost hit her... But being a good guy, i didn't. instead, i cried for the rest of the day and all that night. Not knowing what else to do. I can't leave her... I just cant, 5 years you know? She says she'll do anything to make it up... ANYTHING. I already told her, if she ever hangs out with any of them again I'm done. Other then that, what the hell should i do??? Please dont flame me, this is really big for me...
btw, her name is Nichole, mines Colin just so Xx Diablo xX does not become my name...
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Bloodangel26 - 08-19-2006
you can and should dump her. if you let her get away with this its only a matter of time before she really cheats on you. once a cheater always a cheater. i'm getting the feeling this is probably your first girlfriend or close to it, but the sooner you learn theres always more girls out there the better. this one is not worth it.
but if you really want to continue with this relationship, the pic is really not that big of a deal. its just a pic, me and my friend's, friend's gf's etc. take pics like that and "worse" all the time. kissing is a lot worse than the pic, but still not really the end of the world.
utlimately nothing anyone says is going to matter, you are going to have to figure it out for yourself. but as a guy thats been in this situation(or similar at least) a few times, take it from me, your relationship is already over.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - L4E - 08-20-2006
beat the shit out of the guy, then u can start thinking about what to do with ur gf...
people like that make me sick..
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - xDBD - 08-20-2006
It's kind of unfortunate your age isn't public because my guess is you're under 18, no older than 19. She looks max 17.
Move on, homer. If you think this is the only time this kind of thing is gonna happen, you're wrong. Trust me when I say there are other girls out there who look WAY BETTER, and act way better. Does that sound harsh? No, it's just the truth.
Being locked to one person for five years when you're a teenager is stupid. You only live once. I am NOT saying go whore yourself, but to expect total union from a girl who can barely get a period is absurd.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - FraterPerdurabo - 08-20-2006
If I were you, I'd dump her. End of story.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - toiletsupernova - 08-20-2006
don't beat his ass... though i probably would. violence doesn't solve anything. If she's gonna do it once, she'll do it again man. Get rid of her. It will save you a lot of head and heartache. This girl is no good, otherwise she wouldnt be out kissing other dudes. Who knows what she didnt take pics of. If shes willing tot ake pictures of her kissin this guy, what else is she doing? Get rid of her. She ain't worth your time. As a seasoned vet in the ways of women, trust me, there's more out there. There's always more out there.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Bartender - 08-20-2006
She said she would do anything. So get her to give you 5 hours of sex. Then dump her.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Blue - 08-20-2006
It wouldnt be real thou, thats like saying go rape that girl then shoot her
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - SilverTears - 08-20-2006
Hmm, I would maybe get rid of her but thats your choice. But dont let a picture get you mad. My gf have arms around her friends that are boys to, it doesnt get to me. I do that to my friends that are girls to. Even 1 little kiss doesnt get to me if they have known each other for a long time.
But I mean 20 pics? At least? I wouldnt beat her ass cause that wouldnt do anything but get you in trouble. I would probably dump her. Its all up 2 you tho.
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Bartender Wrote:She said she would do anything. So get her to give you 5 hours of sex. Then dump her.
Your one sick kid arent you? Especially sexing with someone who just cheated on you.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - nujabes - 08-20-2006
hes just an 11 year old, his hormones have just been released into his body.
as for your situation, i would simply dump her nasty ass. What CAN she do to make it up to you? Give you a dollar?
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Blue - 08-20-2006
Majority has it, GET RID OF HER!!!
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Phallock - 08-21-2006
Bye bye baby! Leave her. She will learn her lesson the hard way and hopefully she won't do it to the next guy.
Give it some time and you will find another, better gf.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - L4E - 08-21-2006
like i said earlier, beat the shit out of dan... for all u know he's the one that pressured her into all this. But ultimately u must break up with her, if she was able to do it once she'll be able to do it again
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - xDBD - 08-21-2006
man it's drama, he'll be over it with a new bootycall in a few weeks. part of loving is getting hurt.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - SpoonMan999 - 08-21-2006
My last girl cheated on me and I dumped her immeadiately, I can't respect someone that cheats. I don't even speak to the girl anymore despite having been friends for five years.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Xx Diablo xX - 08-22-2006
Thanks for the advice everyone. Sorry if i took a long time to post back, It seems like the world is out to get me the past week or so... As for dan, he better watch his back, I was just gona let him go, but 3 days ago i was at the plazas around my town, and the whole time a group of about 30 kids was following me and my 2 friends i had with me. They ended up pulling out knives on us so we had to run into the dollar store...
****er got all of his group out to ****ing mug me. So i think I'm going to report that shit, if the ***** wont come up to me himself I'm not going to get mugged for doing the right thing and facing him alone, and not getting my friends into it. And as for Nichole, shes kissing my ass like there's no tomorrow, so we'll see how that goes. I've never cheated... So she better keep it up. Thanks again everyone, feel free to keep posting.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - nujabes - 08-22-2006
she cheated on you with him and hes getting guys to knife you? what the f*ck????!!!?!!?!??! what does she think about it?
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - SilverTears - 08-22-2006
If you want this "dan" guy or w/e, get ur crew out and go **** him up.
If you do the "right" way to solve it.. -.- get the police and go to this dan guy.
Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - Xx Diablo xX - 08-22-2006
nujabes Wrote:she cheated on you with him and hes getting guys to knife you? what the f*ck????!!!?!!?!??! what does she think about it?
She got pissed, called him up and gave him a ear full. I helped smartass2.
[SIZE=1]As as for if I'm going to beat him down or get him put away... I think I'm gona get him put away, the though of just bashing his face into the ground sounds great, but Ive had enough fights this year, kinda getting old honestly. So, I'm going to file a report about that. 30 kids running after me and 2 friends in a public place each with a huge ass knife should end well on my part legally.
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Ever get cheated on? HELP PLEASE - SpoonMan999 - 08-22-2006
You can't do anything to him about the knives and his friends if he wasn't there. But you can get his friends in a shit load of trouble...but then again they'll come at you twice as hard the next time if you get some of them in trouble with the cops.