hi i need some tips on friends

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 07:49 AM

I want to be more social i want to have my friends come over my house or go to the movies iwth me.but besides that i need some new friends im so darn quite nobody seems to notice me or care about me. so how should igo about becoming popular and funny again like 3 years ago?note that 3 months of sschool has pat and no one knows me for more tha njsut another kid in their class but is quite. so please give me some help.

this comming wendsday my psychologist is taking me to the skatepark in sarasota to meet some friends there and have some skating buddies :). btw im 14.

**~~ilikelilkids~~** · 10-29-2004, 07:57 AM

damn.... yo hold on i think i no what you have... you have ADD...? cause i have that and that shit sucks *** when your on the med your quite as hell and your like a mummy and you have no friends come over if thats what you i have the secrete answer

DONT take the meds dude if you do have it and your 14 i would think that your would have tried it already but anyways if you have add and havent tried going to school without your meds tryit its fun as hell lol dude in 6th grade people would say why dont you talk why dont you do stuff and then in 7th greade i didnt take it and shit yo i was funny as hell i did get suspened for talking back. and then in 8th i went back on the med except it was a dif type and shit i take the meds and im fine i can be funny act my self talk and shit but it just doesnt make me do dumbstuff like i would without the meds.... so back to topic do you have add or any disease or thing?

**Lux Aeterna** · 10-29-2004, 08:06 AM

Heh.. Just be more social, simple as that. Go up to people, start conversations. I realize at your age kids will try and pick on every little thing that makes you different, in my perspective it's thoes things that indeed make you different, this world would be sh*t if everyone were the same, that's what kids don't understand. You, can't control who you are, what you look like, and not be fake. But in your case you can just put yourself out there, be more social, try to obtain friends, it's not as if you go up to the most popular guy in school, and say "Hey, wanna' come over to my house and be my friend" -.- You need to get to know people, know how to start conversations, know how to do these things. If not just go with the flow, and I can't stress enough to just put your goddamn self out there, have confidence in yourself. Because personnally I hate people with no confidence :\

**Hamel** · 10-29-2004, 08:06 AM

Honest answer. Be wild and do something to make everyone reconize you. be nice for one >_<. o yea coming from a skater...if you dont skate dont try to be friends with skates personally i hate people that do that...im telling you just to something to make people notice you (dont shoot anyone >_<)

**Lux Aeterna** · 10-29-2004, 08:10 AM

Kemwing, I disagree.

He shouldn't try to do something to make people notice him, I believe that's the wrong method, in my opinion he just needs to be more social, get to know people, not to be known.

**Hamel** · 10-29-2004, 08:12 AM

know one will know him if people dont know hes there he needs to put him self out there and get noticed then people will start talking...o yea..why dont you have friends by the way did you like move here or something? if you have add thats stupid for people not to like you..

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 08:15 AM

im so incredibly shy i dont think i have talked to someone just to flirt yet this year!i mean i think u have to start out from the begging funny or cool and a speak out person. its wierd when someone like me tries to fit in becuase others see it happening get scared and will most likely put me down. the 3 years ive been in florida i still havent had a girlfriend can ubeleive that?im such a great person i jsut cant show it becuase of my supreme anxiety.

**Lux Aeterna** · 10-29-2004, 08:16 AM

.. Heh well. Yes I did move to the United States, but I was too young to remember Germany...

And, no say he did something such as that, he may become "the freak" Or whatever. And yes I have friends -.-

**Lycshiftz** · 10-29-2004, 08:20 AM

my advice...

Become funny as hell like me. To hide the fact that youre shy or insecure or whatever...
Get a girlfriend.
Dont listen to other peoples opinions.
Hang out with people you like and throw partys.

**Hamel** · 10-29-2004, 08:20 AM

hg that wasnt directed to you >_< that was to the other person

**Lux Aeterna** · 10-29-2004, 08:22 AM

Originally Posted by Lycshiftz

my advice...

Become funny as hell like me. To hide the fact that youre shy or insecure or whatever...
Get a girlfriend.
Dont listen to other peoples opinions.
Hang out with people you like and throw partys.

Dead on. And Lyc, I never found you funny, never seen you post something funny... :/ Make me laugh bissh XD

And Kemwing, Deal with it >)

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 08:22 AM

well, i hope the people i attempt to make friends are as understanding as u gies or ill be laughed out of the 8th grade.

**Lycshiftz** · 10-29-2004, 08:23 AM

I meant outside the comp... Im a nerd on the comp outside of it its a diff story lol.

**Lux Aeterna** · 10-29-2004, 08:25 AM

Originally Posted by AngelOfHaste

im so incredibly shy i dont think i have talked to someone just to flirt yet this year!i mean i think u have to start out from the begging funny or cool and a speak out person. its wierd when someone like me tries to fit in becuase others see it happening get scared and will most likely put me down. the 3 years ive been in florida i still havent had a girlfriend can ubeleive that?im such a great person i jsut cant show it becuase of my supreme anxiety.

Have some goddamn confidence, and believe it or not I'm one shy *** mother ****er :\

And "i havent talked to someone just to flirt yet this year!" ... Everytime I talk to a girl it's flirting XD

It's all bout the confidence buddy.

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 08:26 AM

same here i know so much about computers little about making friends

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anyone see nband of brothers?u know the quite leader hes jsut like me well at least thats what my mom thinks and some other people have said.

[But how do u talk when u have all thsoe hot babes and popular people watching u if i say something that they dont like an awkward silence will come about and slice my head off.

**Lycshiftz** · 10-29-2004, 08:27 AM

Well flirting comes naturally for me... Like every girl I know asks me if im hitting on them...

Another idea I have is become a really good guitar player or drummer or bassist and make a band. Have concerts...

If you cant afford it get a job.

DONT LISTEN TO RAP!

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 08:30 AM

okay if its true i msot do something drastic i guess i can tell that cub girl how i feel then if she shoots me down becuase she already has a bf or something ican at least get laughed at for trying something and it may be funny enough for people to be intrested in what i do next.but thats a long shot.

**Lycshiftz** · 10-29-2004, 08:31 AM

Actually no if she says no forget her.
Believe me ive been shurdown to many times to count. I dont even care anymore lol.

*feels like a self help forum guy*

**Lux Aeterna** · 10-29-2004, 08:31 AM

Originally Posted by Lycshiftz

Well flirting comes naturally for me... Like every girl I know asks me if im hitting on them...

Another idea I have is become a really good guitar player or drummer or bassist and make a band. Have concerts...

If you cant afford it get a job.

DONT LISTEN TO RAP!

1. I'm "naturally flirtatious"

2. I play guitar...since I was two. I play drums..and violin.. :\ XD

3. Own a stable.. (horses -.-)

4. Rap sucks, don't listen to it, he's right.

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 08:33 AM

Originally Posted by Lycshiftz

Well flirting comes naturally for me... Like every girl I know asks me if im hitting on them...

Another idea I have is become a really good guitar player or drummer or bassist and make a band. Have concerts...

If you cant afford it get a job.

DONT LISTEN TO RAP!

tomrow is friday and i guess if i do get teased or embarrased it'll only be for one day.

hey does rap include emniem?i really like that im sorry momma song.it makes me feel rebelious.