hi i need some tips on friends

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 10:43 AM

hmm this sounds like it will work but it is so hard i would die from anxiety before i brought myself to do it.

**DragonStrife** · 10-29-2004, 10:46 AM

Angel do you have AIM? I'll help you if you do. But if you don't. Just take damn risks and chances!
Talk to people..

**Lycshiftz** · 10-29-2004, 10:46 AM

*coughs mugen rules! coughs*

Yeah I kind of agree with that but dont make friends with them, you dont want them thinking of u as just a friend.

**DragonStrife** · 10-29-2004, 10:47 AM

Well make friends with the right people.. just go with the flow, itll work

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 10:56 AM

okay now we need to figure out how i am gonna get this red headed chic kthat sits at the table next to me to be my gf.im thinking about saying i want to have sex with her but it might actually happen then im paying her money for her baby bills!!!!!!!!!!

**Nubli** · 10-29-2004, 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by AngelOfHaste

okay now we need to figure out how i am gonna get this red headed chic kthat sits at the table next to me to be my gf.im thinking about saying i want to have sex with her but it might actually happen then im paying her money for her baby bills!!!!!!!!!!

Your 14. Most girls at that age don't think about sex. Do you really want to get a bad reputation added to your already anti-social tendencies? I think not.

Remember this: even though things seem to be against you and you're all nervous, it's ok to have doubts, because when that event actually happens, it's nowhere NEAR as bad as you thought. I am sort of anti-social myself with many people. But I've learned to work my way out of the "shell" and become noticed. People know me for who I am in most parts- smart, sarcastic, funny, sometimes crazy, etc. I'm fine with it if they are. If someone has an attitude about it, I just ignore it.

Be whatever you want to be, but make sure you can go through with it. Don't just walk up to a girl and say, "Hey, your hot, wanna go out sometime and have sex?!?" Just try to get to know her, where she hangs out, who she hangs out with, etc. If she is part of the "popular" crowd, then chances are she already has her eye on someone else. Just stick with it. You never know.

**DragonStrife** · 10-29-2004, 11:11 AM

Dude don't go acting like ur cool around girls like that.

Btw Nubli i disagree, some people do think about sex at ages even younger than that, but dont say that crap to girls, u can go saying shit as jokes to ur guy friends like that, but dont screw it up with girls.

**Nubli** · 10-29-2004, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by DragonStrife

Dude don't go acting like ur cool around girls like that.

Btw Nubli i disagree, some people do think about sex at ages even younger than that, but dont say that crap to girls, u can go saying shit as jokes to ur guy friends like that, but dont screw it up with girls.

Notice I said "most".

**DragonStrife** · 10-29-2004, 11:16 AM

I'm saying "most" actually DO think about it.

Well that's what I meant.

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 11:17 AM

well i happen to notice these girls are into it quite a bit for god sake they say ***** all the way through 3rd period during art.they even make **** sucking signals.and everyda ythey talk abouot gies they think are hot or cute.

**DragonStrife** · 10-29-2004, 11:19 AM

Well still don't say you want sex with 'em k??
Btw if they're like that, forget about 'em, go aim for someone else!
Someone who can appreciate your jokes and stuffs..
you'll find someone

austo · 10-29-2004, 11:22 AM

8th grade sucks if your not the popular jock type. Just about everyone is a complete **** just because they think they are cooler when they are a **** to people. I had the same problems as you but I grew out of it. Just like everyone said confidence in being yourself is the key to making friends but I understand its jut not that easy to change just like that. Just try to think of a something you can talk to people about. Skating is a good way to make friends even if you arent that good right now. You can just practice it and you will be busting 2 ft ollies in no time. Well it does take alot of practice but you gotta start somewhere. talk to some of the skaters in school about it. Dont worry about it if you aren't that good ask if they wanna skate after school and you can learn from them. Once you get to know them better you should be more comfortable with yourself and it may be easier to talk to the chicks that hang out with them. If theres something else you think you would be more into like basketball then go for that. At school dances I take it you are afraid to ask a girl to dance. Its hard for that initial time but once you realize how easy it is you will be much more comfortable doing it. Most girls except for complete *****es(pardon my french) and the most stuck up girls who only dance with the bigshot football players will accept. If they think they are too good for you then you are too good for them. Dont tell your mom I said this but having a couple beers before the dance is a good confidence booster, i'm not saying get wasted but enought to increase your self esteem. Steal something from the liquor cabinet. Anyway I'm gonna head out to that bar to get a couple drinks myself. I hope at least some of this helps.

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 11:32 AM

amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!**** all of them lets all become woman beaters to right where woman have gone wrong.how dare they use us!

**Lux Aeterna** · 10-29-2004, 11:39 AM

Nub's right. Most fourteen year old girls don't think about sex, if they do they're err..****ty? :\

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by austo

8th grade sucks if your not the popular jock type. Just about everyone is a complete **** just because they think they are cooler when they are a **** to people. I had the same problems as you but I grew out of it. Just like everyone said confidence in being yourself is the key to making friends but I understand its jut not that easy to change just like that. Just try to think of a something you can talk to people about. Skating is a good way to make friends even if you arent that good right now. You can just practice it and you will be busting 2 ft ollies in no time. Well it does take alot of practice but you gotta start somewhere. talk to some of the skaters in school about it. Dont worry about it if you aren't that good ask if they wanna skate after school and you can learn from them. Once you get to know them better you should be more comfortable with yourself and it may be easier to talk to the chicks that hang out with them. If theres something else you think you would be more into like basketball then go for that. At school dances I take it you are afraid to ask a girl to dance. Its hard for that initial time but once you realize how easy it is you will be much more comfortable doing it. Most girls except for complete *****es(pardon my french) and the most stuck up girls who only dance with the bigshot football players will accept. If they think they are too good for you then you are too good for them. Dont tell your mom I said this but having a couple beers before the dance is a good confidence booster, i'm not saying get wasted but enought to increase your self esteem. Steal something from the liquor cabinet. Anyway I'm gonna head out to that bar to get a couple drinks myself. I hope at least some of this helps.

i took a 498 question test and my psychologist said based on the rsults the test suggest im an alcholoic!lets not make that true okay?but the rest is great info im starting to get more confident from u gies.

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-29-2004, 10:26 PM

im gooing to school in about 35 minutes wish me luck gies k bye.p.s. i ddrank mountain dew hopefully that will get me talking.

**~~AngelOfHaste~~** · 10-30-2004, 05:35 AM

shit damn **** mother ****er ****sucker!!!!!!!!1

i didnt do it i didnt get any friends or girls !%^@%^~

but on my 6 period class this girl said i better hurry and sit down when i walked it.does that mean she likes me?and 2 girls noticed me in the hall for being in there class.