FOH advice want to get as many options as possible

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I am working on an FOHer he is 81
Gear

-40 Hoto (I really need a FOH stick. People are ****s who have them. Anyone know a site where I can buy one?)
-Griffon
-Slippers (ammy)
-COH alternate Enigma (Dusk) case of Necro
-Arach
-Froties
-2x Sojs
-Soul Spurs
- 10 gcs (Got 2-3 Uber trist runs 2 do hopefully ill get a P Tourch 14+ atr explain y in a min)
-HOZ(Um'd might facet)
-CTA(6Bo) + Spirt
-Anni 17/15/9

Skills
Maxed
Holy Shield
FOH
Holy Shock
9 into Conviction (If I don’t get a PTourch soon ill have 2 throw another 3 and if I don’t get an foh stick with conviction that another 3)
+ Pre Reqs
1 pt to Defiance

I don’t know where to put the rest of my points any ideas things I though
-Defiance
-Smite
-Light Res. (I have a Pally Dream and Dream Helm something to mess around with)

I have 128 Strength with COH and rest of Gear (Something crazy with enigma). I have an upgraded hoz and if I do smite. I probably should use the upgrade one right? And probably throw a facet into it. And that is where the 14>= atr tourch comes in to play. Cuz ill need 142 stg.

So my?’s are
- Where do I put the rest of my Points?
- What’s the easiest way to get a FOH stick weather it trade or buy (If buy anyone got a site)?
-Is it worth hitting 86% FHR BP with an FOHer? Or go with the one lower?
-And if I go smite use up'd HOZ and what do I put in it?
-or if I use regular HOZ leave um or put facet?

Thanks for any help you guys can lend to me.