About being a Mod

[Pamela]

Oh honey it is not really a PM that bugs me.Let me tell you a true story from another site.Someone was using the shoutbox for very intimate personal use on this site.
They messaged me up because they got warned and were asking multiple questions about the warning.Wanting ME to go to the Admin that didt it and go to any other of the Mods I knew and was friends with to *Talk to them* I talked to them alright to tell them what these people were asking of me.They were subsequently banned.The bad thing is one was himself a Mod ....it was ridiculous.I will NOT be used in this manner...not even by another Mod.When the owner of the site asked me I told him what they were doing ...and that I did not think it was cool.I was not the only one that was approached for this purpose.I suggested a conference and we all compared notes. These members had been using other members and mods to make changes through freindship and not chain of command.I felt this terribly WRONG and I wanted to be honest and upfront with the people in charge.