Help me with LOVE....plz

[Stifle_this]

it is nice, science museum is actually pretty cool, dont know what there is to see on a city tour but w/e. And i meant take it more lightly, like less seriously, cause eventually youll just psyche yourself out so much you wont be able to do it

[Hurly91]

it is nice, science museum is actually pretty cool, dont know what there is to see on a city tour but w/e. And i meant take it more lightly, like less seriously, cause eventually youll just psyche yourself out so much you wont be able to do it

Ok......I'm gonna try to take it like this:

" If she says no and she don't wanna talk to me again, it's not a big deal....only a girl... "

You really thing I can take it lightly???? LOL

In a manner, I almost prefer don't knowing her answer cuz if I don't know it, I'm not sure it's a no......
But if I know it and it's a NO........I'll be 100%sure it's no and it's gonna make me sick....:confused:

[jedimaster86]

i would say wait until she breaks up w/bf (or try to break them up by anonymously exposing him somehow..i dunno lol) then try to find common grounds between you and her by finding similar interests or whatever....anyways not to sound pessimistic or anything, but there is prolly a better chance that you won't get with her, sorry buddy. but if you believe...and all that nonsense you still got a chance.

[Stifle_this]

this my friend is the fatal fear of rejection that you, i and many other men suffer from. But you also have to realize, that if u keep it inside, it will also make you sick, and it will almost permanently make you sick. If you get it out in the open and she says no(scenario time), then you can take the steps to get over it and finally move on. It may also not be a good idea to wait, cause she and he bf may be together a looooooooong time. Trust me on this, cause ive been trying the waiting thing for like a year and half, it gets to a point where you feel as if you are gunna explode. She might say, i like you but im in a relationship right now, and then the fact she likes you will bear down on her, eventually break her, and shell break up with you. Its all psychological

also jedi is right about the not believing, be confident, and if u can manage to break them up, then play the friends card, be a conforting friend and eventually move in on it

it being her, lol, im not too good with english and i live in america

[Hurly91]

Kk...So you guyz thing I'd have to say her I love her when school restarts ????
Wich day??? ( 1st day / 2nd day / 2nd week...etc )
And how to say her that ?????

Would a paper asking 4 her phonenumber would be great ????
Then at home, I call her and say her I love her.....

What's best thing to do and when to do it ?????

[Stifle_this]

its really up to you, and when you feel comfortable and feel you can best express how you feel in a way that is clear and to the point, so it doesnt get dragged out and u arent like babbling. Maybe u should do what they said to do on seinfeld one time, like make a kidna speech

[Silver Ice]

just become friends with her until she gets rid of the boyfriend then u can start hanging out more with her and eventually tell her in person.... i was reading and came across an interesting fact..... women that are a 10/10 rarely have dates because some men find them intimidating and don't possess the courage to ask them out.. kind of ironic isnt it.

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ive heard that a ton of times and its actually really true, now i jsut gotta find one of those 10/10's and get them to go out with me

[PantallicA]

Hurly, you're in montreal too? Where exactly?

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lol hiding form you

[Hurly91]

just become friends with her until she gets rid of the boyfriend then u can start hanging out more with her and eventually tell her in person.... i was reading and came across an interesting fact..... women that are a 10/10 rarely have dates because some men find them intimidating and don't possess the courage to ask them out.. kind of ironic isnt it.

Ya....
Problem is I dunno how to make relationships....

I can't make new friends and it's same 4 gfriends ....

Also, I got no BoyFriend experiences so I dunno how to act as a boyfriend..... ( I never got a gfriend )

[CheshireCat]

Don't do it over the phone or on the internet, it's too impersonal. Tell her in person. Tell her now.

if you tell her now she may just resent you if she breaks up with him to go out with you.

Not true, if she breaks up with him for you, she obviously didn't care too much about him anyways.
About the rejection thing, I know how it is, but it's just a possibility you have to be ready to face.
I doubt she will stop talking to you, if she's a real friend.

[Stifle_this]

i know the feeling, i had the same experience with my first gf(ive had 2 woot), and i just told her, i really dont know how to act so youve gotta help me. Girls tend not to be as much of an *** as guys are, so they tend to understand. If you do the same thing with friendship she might even find it CUTE as girls tend to find things

of and cheshire, he already said that they arent that good of friends but they are allright

[Hurly91]

Man...U can't understand....
I'm not even a friend with her....Only a classmate.......

Not true, if she breaks up with him for you, she obviously didn't care too much about him anyways.
About the rejection thing, I know how it is, but it's just a possibility you have to be ready to face.
I doubt she will stop talking to you, if she's a real friend.<!-- / message --><!-- sig -->

Her nickname on MSN contains: " ... I lOvE yOu MiCk!!!!! ... "
Mickael is his name....so i thing she loves him....Also, I saw them kissing b4 going to courses on a locker....so she really loves him


And she's not a real friend cuz she's only a classmate .... not a friend
But she's really nice, so she will probably talk to me again.....even if she knows I love her....

[Stifle_this]

dude,im totally coming up to montreal to check this situation out, lol, i can practice my french too, and maybe get something better than a B in my sophomore honors class

[Aemaeth]

Don't do it over the phone or on the internet, it's too impersonal. Tell her in person. Tell her now.


Not true, if she breaks up with him for you, she obviously didn't care too much about him anyways.
About the rejection thing, I know how it is, but it's just a possibility you have to be ready to face.
I doubt she will stop talking to you, if she's a real friend.

Well, in my view last time i told someone i liked them and they split up with there bf they ended up hating me for splitting them up, just wait it out and tell her is what i'd do, but anyway, who cares about girls! your young...go have fun...beleive me they just tie you down lol

[Stifle_this]

and id just like to say that kissing on a locker doesnt institute love, it implies passion which often can be an illusion of love

[Hurly91]

dude,im totally coming up to montreal to check this situation out, lol, i can practice my french too, and maybe get something better than a B in my sophomore honors class

You serious???
You gonna come to mtl 4 me????
LOLLLLL .... I doubt:devilish:

[A|fzZz]

Ill suggest ask her out for a movie...
just telling her directly is gonna scare her off...
Make friends with her...until u dun feel shy bout lookin directly at her face...[some guys do]
So in the future when ure out with her...tell her...so even if she says no,its easier for you to say "ok"..
If u tell her now and she says no...you will be flustering and stuffs...cos u feel too embarassed and stuffs..
Once both of you are comfortable with each other [ being friends... ]...u wont feel as embarassed as in the past...trust me...

[Stifle_this]

lol, actually i kinda wanna kick this guys *** cause this reminds me so much of my situation(cept the girls bf is actually a really nice guy and im kinda friends with him,which makes it all the worse for me)