gal help

[Diablo's helper]

guys out there please help me there is a really hot gal that i like but i don't know how to ask her out of any other things, all replys will be gratefully accepted

[SpoonMan999]

Ok man first don't just go for her cause she's hot. That's just stupid I know lots of girls who are hot bur are stupid and mean sprited. If she's not like that then get to know her better and be flirtatious if she shows interest then you go for it. Don't just walk up and ask her out cause for me that fails a lot.

[Diablo's helper]

Thanks man , I'll try that

[Po_boy]

You can't really ask us we don't exactly have "lives"

[connect_dubai]

Hahhaa SpoonMan is right....... looks are the first impression, but in the long run it's about how she is as a person......... Just be yourself when you talk to her and stuff... let her come to like you, then you can build on it from there

[SpoonMan999]

Oh yeah don't let on that you like her. Be flirtatious and stuff but don't let her know that you like her just like every now and then poke fun at her, nothing harsh just jokingly, and don't make it seem like a big deal when you hang out with her. Don't act like you don't care though be there for her when she's upset so you're not just some jackass.

[connect_dubai]

Its all about showing her something about you that makes you stand out a lot from all the other guys who are interested in here. And it is OK to poke fun at girls, like SpoonMan said, i think they kinda like the attention...... how old are you guys anyway?

[SpoonMan999]

No don't try to be different just be yourself, if she doesn't like who you are then she's not really the kind of girl you wanna be with. What you need to show her is that you can make her feel good and don't try to impress her all the time. But yeah they love the attention.

I'm 17.

[connect_dubai]

No i didnt mean be different..... i muddled my words, you should also be yourself but show a part of your REAL personality that makes you a great person (if you get me)

[GreyFox]

Ohh thats how you get girls....I have been doing it the hardway.

I would have suggested walk up to her,slap her *** and pull out your pud...But thats me... o.O

[connect_dubai]

Hahahahaha LMFAO............. oh my god, seriously every single one of your posts is full of humour

[-=(Jessica)=-]

yea its funny neway back on topic
if u 2 guys work out spend time with her alot. ex if she asks u to do sumthing for her dont say im sry im busy
other wise it will never work out o and the guys that ask me out r just like
hey, u come here often im like ....? uhh yea then he just walks away lol others r like hi im (name) whats urs then i say my name then he asks how ya doin then it goes on
ps. the name situation works quite well

[Diablo's helper]

Got it, guys but like i was talking to her last night and i found out that she doesn't like anyone at all and she was being quite serious, then would that mean that she's up for grabs ???
ps.(and jessica i already know her )
i'm 15

[SpoonMan999]

If she says she's not interested in anyone then you get her interested. Make her laugh alot and all that jazz show her you can make her feel good but don't get trapped in the friend zone.

[Diablo's helper]

got it

[Skyline_VSpec-2]

i hope your relationship will work out...

[Diablo's helper]

yeah i hope also thanks man

[-=(Jessica)=-]

hang around, near her crack sum jokes as spoon man says thats wat get girls attention
omg! lol sry!!

[connect_dubai]

Damn i almost read that as 'hang around near her crack' :eek:

[snotling]

Most of it is confidence, chicks dig confidence, no one likes a whiny little *****. You have one advantage in the fact that you already know her.

Theres also a certain thing about timing if you miss it as spoonman says, you're delegated to "friend", in other words if you ask her out shed give you the "awww thats so sweet but i would never jepordize our friendship" line. If you catch it, you're naked in bed playing "I'm better than your ex".

Things arent necesarily so clear cut and dry, every situation is different, but as a guy you have to learn from the mistakes you make and make your own decisions.