12-31-2004, 07:00 PM
i agree with you AlfzZz...just because this is a gaming forums doesn't mean people can't ask for advice with personal things...there are some smart people here, and we're willing to help...
Since i am the Uber PIMP, i'll give you some advice.
1st off, i hate to say this but you're really young. You have the rest of your life to find love, make sure you don't confuse love with lust, there is a HUGE difference. From the sounds of it, you're infatuated with her.
Some people have said to become friends with her, good idea, but make sure you guys don't become really good friends because sometimes girls will play the "i don't want to ruin our friendship" card, which sucks.
As for you being the "fat ugly nerdy guy" that's ok. You just have to play your cards right bud. Getting girls is more about having a good personality than being gorgeous. Its about confidence. Even if you don't have confidence, make it seem like you do. Humor is also good, woman love guys who can make them laugh. And you don't have to be good looking, just find one or 2 characteristics that you can use to your advantage, and use them. Make sure you bring them out. Like i am personally a big guy (GrossMann means big guy in german).
I have never had any trouble getting any girl i want, because i have a very strong and charasmatic personality. I also have very dreamy eyes that i use to my advantage. I'll look at a girl to get her attention, not stare just make eye contact for a couple and seconds and then look away. So find some characteristic that you can use to help you.
When you're talking to her, make sure you make eye contact...look at her when she's talking, down look around or stare at the ground or her boobs (i know you want to).
As for telling her that you "love" her, get to know her better 1st, before you tell her. Some girls will like you telling them upfront while they have a bf, and others will be offended. So get to know her 1st, and then decide which she would be more comfortable with.
All woman are different that's why you've gotten half and half on the vote.
If you need any other advice, PM me, I'm going to bed bud. Good luck and whatever you do, don't kill yourself. Peace.
Since i am the Uber PIMP, i'll give you some advice.
1st off, i hate to say this but you're really young. You have the rest of your life to find love, make sure you don't confuse love with lust, there is a HUGE difference. From the sounds of it, you're infatuated with her.
Some people have said to become friends with her, good idea, but make sure you guys don't become really good friends because sometimes girls will play the "i don't want to ruin our friendship" card, which sucks.
As for you being the "fat ugly nerdy guy" that's ok. You just have to play your cards right bud. Getting girls is more about having a good personality than being gorgeous. Its about confidence. Even if you don't have confidence, make it seem like you do. Humor is also good, woman love guys who can make them laugh. And you don't have to be good looking, just find one or 2 characteristics that you can use to your advantage, and use them. Make sure you bring them out. Like i am personally a big guy (GrossMann means big guy in german).
I have never had any trouble getting any girl i want, because i have a very strong and charasmatic personality. I also have very dreamy eyes that i use to my advantage. I'll look at a girl to get her attention, not stare just make eye contact for a couple and seconds and then look away. So find some characteristic that you can use to help you.
When you're talking to her, make sure you make eye contact...look at her when she's talking, down look around or stare at the ground or her boobs (i know you want to).
As for telling her that you "love" her, get to know her better 1st, before you tell her. Some girls will like you telling them upfront while they have a bf, and others will be offended. So get to know her 1st, and then decide which she would be more comfortable with.
All woman are different that's why you've gotten half and half on the vote.
If you need any other advice, PM me, I'm going to bed bud. Good luck and whatever you do, don't kill yourself. Peace.
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