Help me with LOVE....plz

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i agree with you AlfzZz...just because this is a gaming forums doesn't mean people can't ask for advice with personal things...there are some smart people here, and we're willing to help...

Since i am the Uber PIMP, i'll give you some advice.

1st off, i hate to say this but you're really young. You have the rest of your life to find love, make sure you don't confuse love with lust, there is a HUGE difference. From the sounds of it, you're infatuated with her.

Some people have said to become friends with her, good idea, but make sure you guys don't become really good friends because sometimes girls will play the "i don't want to ruin our friendship" card, which sucks.

As for you being the "fat ugly nerdy guy" that's ok. You just have to play your cards right bud. Getting girls is more about having a good personality than being gorgeous. Its about confidence. Even if you don't have confidence, make it seem like you do. Humor is also good, woman love guys who can make them laugh. And you don't have to be good looking, just find one or 2 characteristics that you can use to your advantage, and use them. Make sure you bring them out. Like i am personally a big guy (GrossMann means big guy in german).

I have never had any trouble getting any girl i want, because i have a very strong and charasmatic personality. I also have very dreamy eyes that i use to my advantage. I'll look at a girl to get her attention, not stare just make eye contact for a couple and seconds and then look away. So find some characteristic that you can use to help you.

When you're talking to her, make sure you make eye contact...look at her when she's talking, down look around or stare at the ground or her boobs (i know you want to).
As for telling her that you "love" her, get to know her better 1st, before you tell her. Some girls will like you telling them upfront while they have a bf, and others will be offended. So get to know her 1st, and then decide which she would be more comfortable with.

All woman are different that's why you've gotten half and half on the vote.

If you need any other advice, PM me, I'm going to bed bud. Good luck and whatever you do, don't kill yourself. Peace.

post after post in this thread, i kept thinking of stuff to reply with..then i read UGM's post, and bro, i swear me and u think nearly exactly alike:eek: ...lol..but i got more to say...

hurly, i was 13 only a year ago, and it's been almost a year since i met the girl i thought would be 'the woman i would marry'...but man, NEVER think that in Jr. High or High school...cuz once u and her have been together for a while, and u know every little detail about her and her life...things start goin to shit....all of the sudden she thinks "u used to be so much nicer before we started dating!", and a lot of other bs...so, quoting...sumone, i cant remember who, but quoting sumone else who posted here, there's a BIG difference in love and lust.

my advice...ok, so u got her MSN name...that's a good start. Start it off slow, but start talking to her online, and DONT TELL HER YOU "LOVE HER"...yet:devilish: ....just start talking to her on msn for around a week or so, and keep it simple. Find out things about her, ask her how her day went, find out what she likes, etc. then after a week or when you feel comfortable, when she says she has to get off msn, or when you have to get off, ask her for her phone number...hell, you've been chattin nicely for a week, as long as u know some stuff about her, and she doesnt ignore u on msn, she should give you her number..if she doesnt, dont worry, she might be playin 'hard to get'...just chat with her some more and try again when you feel comfortable asking...once you got her number, call her up, and talk with her, and dont be shy bro, she will either think ur immature, or think ur a puss...just talk with her like you would on msn, ask her how her day went, how she is, etc. try not to mention her boyfriend, that will make probably make you uncomfortable, or if she likes you it will make her feel uncomfortable. After you get to know her and stuff, ask yourself, do you still realy like this girl? because from what i've read, at the moment you barely know her, she's just this hot perfect girl you madly want. so consider what you know about her, and if you two have similiar interests, start flirting with her..just keep it simple, not too big of flirting though, cuz she might not like you and she might tell her boyfriend and he might kick your ***. so, yeah...if she breaks up w/ her boyfriend dont go after her super-quick, just kick it up a notch on tha flirtin'...well, that's my two cents, i felt like i had to share my thought:p ...need any more advice, just ask bro, maybe not everyone here at d2sector is, but a lot of people are here and willing to help you out