08-19-2006, 11:04 PM
you can and should dump her. if you let her get away with this its only a matter of time before she really cheats on you. once a cheater always a cheater. i'm getting the feeling this is probably your first girlfriend or close to it, but the sooner you learn theres always more girls out there the better. this one is not worth it.
but if you really want to continue with this relationship, the pic is really not that big of a deal. its just a pic, me and my friend's, friend's gf's etc. take pics like that and "worse" all the time. kissing is a lot worse than the pic, but still not really the end of the world.
utlimately nothing anyone says is going to matter, you are going to have to figure it out for yourself. but as a guy thats been in this situation(or similar at least) a few times, take it from me, your relationship is already over.
but if you really want to continue with this relationship, the pic is really not that big of a deal. its just a pic, me and my friend's, friend's gf's etc. take pics like that and "worse" all the time. kissing is a lot worse than the pic, but still not really the end of the world.
utlimately nothing anyone says is going to matter, you are going to have to figure it out for yourself. but as a guy thats been in this situation(or similar at least) a few times, take it from me, your relationship is already over.