06-21-2004, 10:13 PM
Most of it is confidence, chicks dig confidence, no one likes a whiny little *****. You have one advantage in the fact that you already know her.
Theres also a certain thing about timing if you miss it as spoonman says, you're delegated to "friend", in other words if you ask her out shed give you the "awww thats so sweet but i would never jepordize our friendship" line. If you catch it, you're naked in bed playing "I'm better than your ex".
Things arent necesarily so clear cut and dry, every situation is different, but as a guy you have to learn from the mistakes you make and make your own decisions.
Theres also a certain thing about timing if you miss it as spoonman says, you're delegated to "friend", in other words if you ask her out shed give you the "awww thats so sweet but i would never jepordize our friendship" line. If you catch it, you're naked in bed playing "I'm better than your ex".
Things arent necesarily so clear cut and dry, every situation is different, but as a guy you have to learn from the mistakes you make and make your own decisions.