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This is not a **** thread or nothing but i am having problems in the bed. Well actually not me, i am not having problems but problems with what is happening.. I need help from a female that knows alot about sex or has sex alot. And so that no one has weird thoughts about this i would like for you to pm me to talk about this so that underage kids are not trying to get off on this. If you are a man that knows much about the lady body and think you could help with this problem let me know.\
Lol this is not me not lasting long enough but her not lasting long enough and me hurting way too much from not getting done. If you want more info please pm me if you think you can help too. And i dont want spammed from dumb people and i dont want some horn dog trying to pm me. Thanks for any helpconfused:
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Understood...will PM you for private discussion hun.
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Well, I'll send this in a pm, but I'll post it here.
I'm just 19, but I have a pretty big sex life with the girl I've been seeing. In fact, it's gotten to be at least once a day almost. However, I can't pretend to know everything and the fact that I'm probably younger than you may make it strange to ask advice of me. But I did go to this website with my girlfriend and it has helped me out a lot and she has liked it immensely too. So if I can help you out at all, I'm willing to try.
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The biggest problem I can ascertain is....he performs TOO well...............mmm I will allow him to comment if he so chooses.
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yes it seems as though i am going too long and she does not feel like it after the first time she has an orgasam. she does not seem to want to have multiples.
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Are you using a condom? While I definitely don't want you to stop if you are, this may speak as to why you are lasting too long. I've never tried it without one, but I do know that last longer using one.
Other than that, find different positions. I myself found doing random stuff can increase my speed. However, my girl usually wants more than one.
Also remember that orgasming isnt that important, just foreplay and seeing you go could be enough for her.
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lol man i have tottally c blocked myself with foreplay completely i mean i still do it and alot of kissing and touching but i have made her do it multiple times and then hey let me do it for you because she was out lol i think she just has low stamina and i need to find a way to raise it lol back when i could not last long i would take hydrocodone to keep myself going and because i have a messed up shoulder. but maybe if she takes one it may do the same for her lol and i can go sober lol idk still needing a little help. found one thing i neeed to try that pamela helped me with the others i have tried and stuff just not working also blue read your pm it may help you a little[COLOR="Silver"]
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[/COLOR]oh yeah and i havent been using condoms either lol and yes condoms do make me last longer but this is not the case i have not been using them we both like it without condoms but believe me i pull out because we already have one kid and she is on birthcontrol
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The whole condom thing never worked for me...my husband broke them every time and I would have to fish them out...oog.With women it is often stress,hormones,or physical distraction that keep us from coming to orgasm quickly.
Such as listening for a baby cry or the stupid phone rings....~shrugs~ at least for me it is.....and a pet pouncing up into the bed is a real mood killer.
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yeah i know it is not physical anymore because i have been working out and i have been more attractive to her. but there could be other elements playing on this then what i know. But i am sure we will figure things out and make it through it lol i just hate not getting off with her. Instead i have to do something else which takes ten times longer for me to get off then lol
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I'll PM ya. We haven't ever talked too much but I know a little bit about the ladies and I think I'm friendly enough to talk with about this.
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She goes too quick? I will PM shortly.
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