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I was reading through a few things on the forums and I have seen this mentioned. People I know in life also mention it. Drama does not follow you around, you choose to be immersed in it and associate with people who will bring it to you. Stop complaining about it and be like me if you don't want drama... Don't talk to people. I talk to about 10 people in real life and they aren't even all friends. When I say that family is included, so I probably hang out with 4 or 5 friends. Drama is not an issue in my life because I do not make it one. Stop being self-pitying bitches and remove yourself. You are a complete idiot if you say drama "follows" you around.
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Good point. I'll take that as some good advice.
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What's so bad about drama?
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Nothing is bad about drama as long as it is on T.V! LOL
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11-23-2007, 04:58 PM
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This is coming from someone who socializes with about 5 people?!
When you socialize with around 50/100 people and you can verify that drama doesn't follow you i'll beleive you.
Because it follows me, the difference is, i don't bitch about it.
And what is good about being anti-social? Some people have the need to express themselves socialy, And not be a loner with few or no friends, what you have expierienced for yourself isn't the norm, neither is what i have expierienced. So you CANNOT simply put that theory on something that could be different for everyone.
What you are saying is drama dissapears when you stop caring?
No, Far from it. The drama stays, Your attitude is different, that is all.
If you are using the theory that few or little friends or being removed is a good way to not go through drama and not learn about life/situations like the rest of us, i pity you, so much.
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The point was bitching about it is stupid... An "idea" (I guess that is what you would call it) cannot follow you around. Drama is not a person, drama is caused by your own dilemmas and can usually be turned around with a different attitude. People who bitch about it are assholes. People who even say that are assholes.
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Metalhead Steve Wrote:The point was bitching about it is stupid... An "idea" (I guess that is what you would call it) cannot follow you around. Drama is not a person, drama is caused by your own dilemmas and can usually be turned around with a different attitude. People who bitch about it are assholes. People who even say that are assholes.
Drama doesn't follow people, people who cause drama follow people around, because they thrive off of it, and if their not happy, they don't want any one else to be ether. In thus DRAMA.
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FraterPerdurabo Wrote:What's so bad about drama?
Boo, drama sucks.
Why can't everyone just get along? 
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Because their are people who love to have something to dangle over others heads!
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Screamthoughts Wrote:Drama doesn't follow people, people who cause drama follow people around, because they thrive off of it, and if their not happy, they don't want any one else to be ether. In thus DRAMA.
You make it seem hard to get rid of people...
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The solution to drama is...just be mature. It's that simple. Someone tries to starts sshit with you or you in a drama-ful(?) situation, just be the bigger man and either say "whatever" or "idk what you guys think". Won't that work fine? Drama only affects people who care about whatever the drama involves.
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hellsing293 Wrote:The solution to drama is...just be mature. It's that simple. Someone tries to starts sshit with you or you in a drama-ful(?) situation, just be the bigger man and either say "whatever" or "idk what you guys think". Won't that work fine? Drama only affects people who care about whatever the drama involves.
QFT.
Your "friend" removed herself from her situation. Take heed to this because it is how you deal with it, either that or you just bitch about it.
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no she didn't "remove" her self she still lurks around. This I know for sure. She does this stuff all the time.
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There is drama you cannot avoid sometimes.
That's the type that follows me.
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I'm sorry...Iguess you know how I feel at times.
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Webster's Dictionary: DRAMA n. A composition in prose or verse, especially one recounting a serious story; dramatic art of a particular period.
According to Pamela: DRAMA v.A series of bullshit attitudes causing a domino affect of chaos and angst, that serves neither a purpose,or plan,but results in high tempers,confusion,harsh words,and hurt feelings.
A situation,not always avoidable,but universly distastful,causing stress and on rare occasions panic attacks.
Now,for people that say this follows them around...learn to run faster,or wear better disguises?
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I like the running faster idea, thats why I quit smoking! LOL
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11-27-2007, 04:43 AM
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metalhead steve, has it ever occurred to you that you may be a douche? this ray of knowledge recently entered my dome.
xDBD Wrote:metalhead steve, has it ever occurred to you that you may be a douche? this ray of knowledge recently entered my dome.
let me elaborate before you call me an idiot and i have to write another post. being drama free isn't about being anti-social, it's about being surrounded by drama and not letting the little shit bother you. people being idiots and whatnot is a part of life. having the mindset to shake the small details where it's at.
i have a few close friends and a hell of a lot more good time buddies and drama isn't an issue for me. it's because i'm comfortable enough in my own that i don't let yours bother me.
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Some people just try to cause problems in your life and rather than let it cause you grief you let it roll off you. People that like to cause problems usually cant stand it when they cant get to the person and it usually just backfires if you can maintain that attitude and eventually they will leave you alone. It just sucks when theres people you cant avoid trying to do this.
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xDBD Wrote:if you're gonna offer advice, offer the kind that won't drive depressed teens crazy
lol emos...
Really though, how much is there to be depressed about when you are a teenager? My life as a teenager was to get ****ed up every day, nothing there to be depressed about. The teenage years are the years you really get to do what you love every day, there is more for an adult to be depressed about than some punk ass teenager...
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